What is Dementia WTF?
Dementia is hard. It’s heartbreaking. And sometimes it’s so bizarre you can’t help but laugh and say, “WTF just happened?”
That’s why we created Dementia WTF, as a space for all of it: the tears, the humor, the chaos, and the love that never disappears.
We’re not doctors or experts. We’re daughters, friends, and caregivers who’ve been in the thick of it. What got us through?
Humor (because crying in the closet gets old)
Heart (because love doesn’t vanish with memory)
Showing up messy, real, and often with snacks and cocktails
We call ourselves the GEMS — Girlfriends Empowering through Mentoring and Support. Translation: we’ve seen some sh*t, and we’re still standing (lipstick smudged, but smiling).
Why We Exist
Caring for a loved one with dementia is an emotional rollercoaster. Some days, you’re heartbroken. Other days, you’re laughing at something so absurd you wonder if anyone else could possibly understand.
We built Dementia WTF around what carried us through: unconditional support, humor, and the kind of girlfriend-in-your-corner energy that keeps you going. Nobody should have to do this alone.
The Heart Behind Dementia WTF
Dementia WTF was born from our own stories. Cori’s mom is living with Alzheimer’s, and Tricia walked the journey with both of her parents through dementia until they passed. We know firsthand the heartbreak, the chaos, and the “did-that-really-just-happen?” moments that come with caregiving. And we know how much it matters to have someone who gets it by your side.
What You’ll Find Here
This isn’t just a website. It’s a community. Here’s what we’ve created for you:
WTF Moments — real stories from caregivers, with a dose of humor and wisdom Stories & Sips — our monthly live Zoom hangouts, where we pour a drink, swap stories, and laugh through the chaos together.
Free Resources — guides like 24 Ways to Live Fully (Even in the Middle of WTF Moments).
The G.E.M.S. Method — a framework we built to help adult children confidently navigate the confusion, heartbreak, and unexpected joys of this journey.
Our Promise
Whether you’re caring for your mother, your father, or another loved one with dementia, you’ve found your people. We’re here to remind you:
You’re not alone. You’ve got backup. And yes you can still laugh, even here.
Welcome to the family. Welcome to Dementia WTF.
Don’t WTF Alone.
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